Stop, please read Love is Like a Butterfly first.
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Attract a Butterfly by Creating a Bouquet
Love is like a butterfly, and it will come to those that it chooses. If you want love, you need to attract it.
Butterflies are attracted to flowers. For your best chances, and happiness in life, you must create a bouquet.
A bouquet is mad up of many flowers, and first you will need to choose a proper vase. The vase in essence is the sum of who you are, and what you like to do. The flowers are the friends you will pick, that will want to be in your vase, and you in theirs.
Slowly add your flowers to your vase. As you go through the meadows of life, you will come across those people you would like to pick as your friends. Choose them wisely, gently pick them, and carefully place them in your vase. Before you know it, your vase will be full of beautiful flowers. Small flowers, big flowers, light flowers, dark flowers, sick flowers, and well flowers. All together your bouquet will give off a heavenly scent.
You must take care of your bouquet of flowers. You painfully have to pick out those that have withered, faded, decayed, and maybe giving off a stench. Those friends that have changed or gone their own way. You must ensure that your bouquet receives plenty of water. Talking and spending time with your friends, giving them the nourishment they so cravingly need, just as you do to.
Then one day a cocoon will start to move. Just a little wiggle, and then some more. Suddenly and violently a beautiful butterfly will appear. Staggering out to the edge of the leaf, it strains to open its wings. Finally in triumph, the wings are outstretched soaking in the rays of the morning sun. Beautiful colors radiating from its wings like those of the rainbow.
On that special day, you will be admiring and spending time with your bouquet. Then out of the corner of your eye you see a little fluttering. You turn to look, and the most beautiful butterfly, that you have ever seen, is fluttering toward you. Slowly it approaches, and your heart isn’t sure what to feel. It has chased butterflies before to no avail.
Closer now, it is fluttering around your head. You fight the feelings. You are confused. You are afraid.
It delicately lights on one of the flowers in your bouquet. Your head is spinning, and flooded with all the memories you and that flower have experienced together. Your heart begins to beat faster.
With trembling hands you reach out to bring that flower closer to your racing heart. You approach slowly, fearing that any sudden move will frighten the butterfly away. Gently you take the flower, and the butterfly does not fly away. No looking. No chasing. No stealing. No paying.
Your LOVE has found and chosen you.